A lot of planning enters a wedding by the bride and groom, to make sure that their day can really be wheat Day: exactly how they want it, even a tee.
But, according to some guests, these demands can go quickly too far, with a couple of bees for an ‘aggressive’ passive line in their wedding invitation.
“This is a wedding reception, not a girls’ night”
A couple has been criticized after one of their wedding guests shows Facebook to rave a small detail about their invitation.
In the note, under the clothing code, it is not simple as the ‘optional black tie’ or a color scheme, but rather a line called by its ‘aggressive passive’ nuances.
“Casual elegant, please, dress properly and respectable,” says the invitation.
“This is a wedding reception, not a girl of girls.”
Oh!
The poster called the “gross” and completely unnecessary involvement.
“It is strange to want to announce your insecurity to all, but you do it,” they wrote.
“I do not agree to imply that clothes is what makes a woman” respectable. “If you want modest, just say that. But the involvement in this is disgusting. Very simple.
“It feels disgusting for me to make a passive-agreal comment to the girls that this” is not a night of girls. “Which implies that women do not know what is appropriate for a wedding? What are we naturally attention?”
“I would be so tempted to appear in my best club clothes”
The common ones in the publication thought that the desire was ridiculous, calling the couple for their “bad” behavior.
“It is an unpleasant involvement and, frankly, I would be so tempted to appear in my best club clothes,” he snapped a commemter.
“I have seen men more inappropriately dressed in weddings: jeans, tennis shoes or boots, with a cap, what I have seen to cross the line, so it is strange to her just comment on women,” said another.
Some can only have one leg aimed at a particular person.
“Like when my boss sent a group text message about the use of sports fasteners such as shirts and there was only one person doing that, and that customized the memorandum and continued to do so,” added a person.
Is it really a problem?
However, some thought that the note was completely justified to ensure that the bride had the appearance of her wedding day. Anything for good photos, right?
“There is nothing wrong with waiting for people to dress properly,” said a person.
“I have a family member whom I have to say that they are covered in Easter, Christmas and Thanksgiving. [inappropriately] And it’s really shameful, “added another.
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